So I get told to not say Merry Christmas then people fuss if I don't say it. Valentine's Day is a made-up holiday (HELLO???? Which isn't?). Now I'm not supposed to say "Happy Mother's Day" unless I know the person I'm talking to expects it and wants to hear it and won't be hurt by it? HOW am I supposed to know? I deal with the public. I'm supposed to be polite. But I can NOT keep from offending everyone anymore, it simply isn't possible.